Like a Virgin Essay

Note Some call have been changed to protect the anonymity of the persons involved. Fake nose, fake lips, fake bust Can anything stay ingrained these days? Surgeons have apparently achieved to change every part of the body and they aint exhalation to stop. Indeed, another(prenominal) form of surgery has become widespread around the world hymenoplasty.Morocco hasnt escape from that trend. simply why in the world a woman would want to have her hymen the tissue that covers the foreign part of the vagina and is broken in the first familiar intercourse back? According to Dr. Youssef Derouich, a oecumenic practioner at a health center in Marrakech, hymenoplasty is the reconstitution of the hymen using an conventionalised tissue or using the mucous membrane to create in this case an endogenous hymen. There is another in timet of hymenoplasty hymenorraphy which is simply a temporary hymenoplasty.Dr. Derouich emphasized the fact that it is an expensive surgery that is not allowed by the Maroc law which is why it is dupee secretly in any(prenominal) private hospitals. The hymen of a hymenoplasty lasts until the sexual act, while the one resulting from a hymenorraphy lasts for about twain weeks as Dr. Derouich explained. Theres more. Women have another option, less expensive but more risky, to simulate their virginity. A made in China gadget. It is basically a little plastic bag full of fake blood that explodes during the defilement. A trick good of the best illusionists. Originally, it was a sex-toy made by a Japanese company.Read moreEssay astir(predicate) the Virgin by Kerima PolotanYears after, a smart Chinese company, Gigimo, took this concept and started making cheap artificial hymens and selling them in Arab countries. We poop now find these gadgets in almost souks in Casablanca or capital of Morocco for less than 300 dirhams (Roucaute). If Moroc raise women are using those two methods these days to recreate a arcsecond virginity, despite the all ergies, infections, and sutures failure that it may cause as Dr. Derouich asserted, it is mainly because of the importance of virginity of a woman in Morocco. What a shame it would be for a man to marry a non-virgin woman Ms. Nadia Azzouzi, an active portion of LAssociation Dmocratique des Femmes du Maroc (The Democratic Association of Women of Morocco) affirmed.The new bride even risks to be rejected by her family and divorced from her save. These methods prove Ms. Azzouzi again the absurdity and hypocrisy of the Moroccan mentality. The first agent that she points out is that the non-virgins use it to pretend to be pure and chaste during their wedding night. Especially when in some areas in Morocco, we still have that tradition called the bridal sheet where the groom has to show to his family and sometimes even to the guests waiting in front of the door, the traces of bleeding caused by the defilement of his wife. An artificial hymen entrust be a life-safer for the non-virgin i n this case, erasing her mistakes of the past and making her accepted by her family-in-law.Recreating a hymen is lying to her husband while the principal foundations of marriage are trust and mutual respect. But most of all, it is lying to herself because imagining that she can restore a factitious virginity with a small piece of flesh is burying her head in the sand, like if it was this membrane that determines the chastity or even the value of a woman, says Ms. Azzouzi. However, she is aware that in some cases, hymenoplasty is acceptable like for the examples that Dr. Derouich gave little girls that had an accident when biking or riding a horse, or the 20% of women who dont even have a hymen.Ms. Azzouzis voice became high-pitched when she started talking about the consequences of this way and how it drives in the male domination in the society. Approving this is letting those men, who run after girls in debar and night clubs, exert their machismo on women that have to be docile and innocent and dont possess the right to have a sexual freedom. She also adds that men do not want their wives to be already used. They find in this privilege, a way to prove their virility and impose, from the beginning, their strength in the couple. It will consequently lead to the objectification of the woman and drag her to the level of an object that becomes useless once touched.The concept of virginity cant be changed overnight, says Nadia Azzouzi with a sigh. We can maybe see hymenoplasty as a step out front to the freedom of women, but we cant fool ourselves. A hymen cant be sewed on again. Do we really want to own our rights with this petty and deceitful way? No This method goes against all what sex equality stands for. It will only deepen the gap between the two genders and kick start the male chauvinism in our country. And who knows, maybe two or three generations later, nothing will give that much importance to virginity anymore.Works CitedAzzouzi, N. Telephone inte rview. 9 Feb. 2013.Derouich, Y. Telephone interview. 10 Feb. 2013. Lhymnoplastie, une seconde virginit. Le Monde. Le Monde, 06 Jul. 2012. Web. 8 Feb.2013. URL http//www.lemonde.fr/societe/article/2012/07/06/l-hymenoplastie-une-seconde-virginite_1729088_3224.html